Hello my love bugs!! Wow its been months since I have typed out my last blog; literally so much has gone down in my life I do not know if I could even type it all out. I am FINALly finished with my third semester of college and very soon about to be heading back to Statesboro. Thank you dual enrollment because I am now considered a junior due to credits WOOP WOOP! (kinda scared at the same time though because that means that I have the chance to graduate early *insert nervous emoji*) But anyways this past semester has been crazy, exiting, scary, hard, ... basically every emotion all in one. It had a lot of ups and a lot of downs but good news one of the ups has been that I have had a cutie boyfriend to be there for me for support and encouragement through the piles (literal piles) of school work. So yes everybody, finally, Abi Cliett has a boyfriend. Let me be the first one to say Hallelujah. I have finally found someone to look past the crazy lol. No but seriously girls, relationships are another thing in themselves. Not gonna lie to y'all I am basically a little giddy girl who feels like she has her first crush; you can ask Dalton sometimes I look & act like one too. It feels beyond amazing to have someone to be able to talk to and share your life with. I can definitely tell y'all I am still falling so hard for his sweet smile, did I mention my boyfriend is CUTE ooo lawd help me! He makes me feel special and loved and so happy; there is seriously no better feeling! Our relationship brings me such joy and happiness but girls it is not perfect. Being in a relationship has really opened my eyes to all of the challenges that occur in our world. Before I was dating Dalton, I was so caught up in my own life and my personally goals and feelings. But now, I understand how my actions and my words can impact someone and just how important it is to truly respect another person and what their values and dreams are even if they are different from your own. A relationship is between two people, not just one. I never ever believed that my personality would be seen as self-centered, but with new situations that arise I began taking the low road and only caring about how I felt in disagreements instead of considering Dalton's feelings. Trust is another really big lesson that I have learned through my relationship. Allowing someone into your life can be so scary, but if you allow the right person who has pure intentions then the idea of trust becomes simple. Yes I can trust someone to hold my phone or my purse, but when you trust an individual with your heart, you are giving up a part of yourself and you need to have faith in your partner to be the person who can hold you up and puts you first. Every single relationship has arguments and disagreements; we are all human and make mistakes. Dalton definitely handles situations a lot better than I do because no matter how upset I get or how mad he is we always find a way to calm down and express our opinions without the fear of breaking up. This was a huge turning point for me in our relationship. I remember I used to be so scared to ever say anything because I did not want to cause an argument but ladies we can not be afraid to speak our minds. Now I'm not saying that every issue needs to be brought up, but when you personally feel hurt tell your guy and just talk it out. It can be very hard to express your feelings without being worried about the aftermath, but this exact problem was what was holding me back from being honest with Dalton which dimmed the idea of trust in the relationship. Dalton has always told me to be honest with him and I love him for that because he always reassures me that nothing is gonna happen between us just because of an argument. Respecting someone and trust go along way in a relationship and those are some of the little life lessons that I have learned so far in my relationship. Every single couple is different, but remind your significant other that your bond is stronger than words and fear; that nothing can destroy the feelings that formed the connection between y'all. Okay stepping away from the lecture podium now haha, this is just a little update into my life and what I have been up to. I hope all of y'all have had a wonderful holiday and amazing start to the New Year! Please always feel free to reach out to me, I would love to hear from y'all! If y'all have any relationship advice or stories PLEASE text me because I always believe that we can benefit from each other! XOXO lovies
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